hbkbkk Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 There are a lot of talks about gig. I think I am a gig (good innocent guy) But what is a gig to you? How is it different from a BF or GF? Can a GIG become a GF or BF or can a GF or BF become just a GIG? Also how many gig do you have? :-) :?: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friends Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 how's about "Guks" ??? I've just heard that from 2unique...hmmm....interesting word :twisted: I think I am a gig (good innocent guy) I am a gig (gorgeous indeed girl)..LOL.. :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
music Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 yeah, all you veteran tf members, do chime in because i still don't have a solid handle on this word, don't know whether i want to be one or not... lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 yah i would like a concrete definition too, i can kinda triangulate from context but i still dont *exactly* got the hang of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biachung Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 sounds like "bootycall" ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hbkbkk Posted October 19, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 What is bootycall? :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bored Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 thai friends told me that gik, gig (whatever) means "fcuk buddy". literally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biachung Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 What is bootycall? :wink: it's someone to call when you want some booty (#$%^%) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Japhrodisiac Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 Consider your right hand as your Girlfriend, then your left is your Gik. :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OutOfOrder Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 GIG: someone you hangout and/or sometimes make out and/or "..." with without having any commitments between each other. You don't have to be responsible at all for any of your actions. Plus, you're allowed to have as many gigs as you like. And none of your gig's allowed to make fuss or complain or get jealous. GuK: someone you fool/flirt/ or just hanging around with ... you dont really like them THAT much... but you just wanna guk (keep) them, just incase of emergency! get it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bored Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 but i'll have another question for our thai friends. when a man is married is there any difference between "gik" and "mia noi"? does "mia noi" have a special meaning like in the past? a fcuk buddy is just pleasure but a minor wife would involve some responsabilities. so...gik=mia noi ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OutOfOrder Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 if a person is married... you're not *officially* allowed to have any of the above. No gigs, no guks, no mei noi...it's all wrong. if you already have a BF or GF, you shouldnt be involved with Gig & guk either. ~but some ppl still do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nitnoi Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 It is called, " Ten rules of being a KIK" >§Ò¹ÇÔ¨ÑÂÂѧä´éÊÃØ»¡® 10 ¢éâç¡ÒÃà »ç¹¡Ôê¡ äÇé´Ñ§¹Õé ¤×à > >1.ËéÒÃ腤肤 áµèËèǧ¡Ñ¹ä´é KIK are not allowed to be jealous, but you can take care of each other. > >2.ÃÕÃÃäáѹä´é áµèäÃèãªè¢Ã§¡Ñ¹áÅáѹ Can be intimate , but they are not 'belong' to each other. >3.äÃèÃÕÊÔ·¸Ôà ÃÕ¡ÃéçÃÒ¡à ¡Ô¹à ˵Ø Don't have any rights to 'ask' of other person much. >4.¡Ôê¡ÃÒ¨à »ÅÕè¹ʶҹÃä´é áµè¶éÒäÃèä´éËéÒÃà ÈÃéÒ KIK can change 'status' (to being 'bf/gf) but if not, don't be sad. >5.ËéÒÃãªé¡Ôê¡ÃèÇáѹ¡Ñºà ¾×èù Don't share the same KIK with your friends. >6.¶éÒ¡ÔꡤԴ¨ÃÃÕá¿¹à »ç¹µÑÇà »ç¹µ¹â´ÂäÃèãªèà ÃÒ ËéÒÿÙÿÒ áµèµéç¾ÂÒÂÒÃÂÃÃÃѺ áÅÃÂÔ¹´Õ´éÇ ¤èõ¡Å§¡Ñ¹·ÕËÅѧÇèҨáÔꡡѹµèÃä»ËÃ×Ãà »ÅèÒ If your KIK have (permanet) bf/gf, don't get upset. But try to accept that and be pleased with them. Then you could talk later if the two of you wanna continue being KIK . >7.äÃè¨Óà »ç¹µéÃ§à ·¡á¤Ãì¡Ñ¹à ¡Ô¹à ˵Ø à ¾ÃÒÃà »ç¹á¤è¡Ôê¡ No need to take care of each other much, after all, you are only a KIK. >8.¡Ôê¡äÃèä´é¨Ó¡Ñ´¨Ó¹Ç¹ à »ç¹ÃÔ¹¿Ô¹ÔµÕé äÃè¨Ó¡Ñ´à ¾È ÇÑ áÅÃʶҹÀÒ¾ ¶éÒäÃè¡ÅÑǵÒÂà ¾ÃÒÃà ôÊì KIK is indefinite in numbers, gender, age, and status, if you're not afraid of AIDS. >9.¡Ôê¡ÊÓ¤ÑÂÃç¨Ò¡á¿¹ Your KIK is less important than your bf/gf (Fan). >10.¡Ôê¡Âѧ䧡çà »ç¹¡Ôê¡ µéÃ§à ¨ÕÂÃ楀 ¾ÃéÃÃÊÃØ»ÇèÒ "¡Ôê¡äÃèãªèªÙé áµè¶éÒΌÃÙéµéçà ÅÔ¡" KIK is a KIK. You should know your place. In summary, "KIK is no lover/adaltary but if your bf/gf(fan) knows, you have to end your relationship with your KIK." Hope I translate it ok? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
music Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 9. If you are "Single" .. that person is not your "GIK"!! :!: bkkbird, i was doing fine until #9. i'm just a farang hippie. could you clarify that please? 'that person' is who? overall, this gik thing looks promising. but i tend to be an all or nothing guy who focuses on one person and that's it. maybe i'm not great gik material! lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bwian Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 Does a Gik get the occasional "thank-you for being such a good friend" shag? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ttesta Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 Sometimes your friends can also be your 'gigs' just like Friends with Benefits It's like you are more than friends but not a BF/GF. :wink: But you have to set the line and make it clear that you're not a couple or that'll ruin your friendship. :roll: Anyway I've seen many frienship fail because of this type of gigs though. :twisted: Noochy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 Hmmmmmm from my personal point of view... I think "Gik" is something like "Fling"... But there are rules for having a "GIK".. these rules could work only with a good & decent "GIK"... 1. No Sexual stuff involved... "Platonic Love". 2. This person is more than a normal friend... as you both have "chemistry" and you feel "connected" or "bonded" to each other.. 3. This person is not your BF/GF.. for whatever reasons.... But could be promoted to be your BF/GF once you are not committed to someone. :shock: 4. This person will never ever cross the line.. never demand anything from you. 5. This person is someone you always can turn to when you have some probs with your GF/BF... like your personal "Sanctuary" 6. This person is being in your life only for one reason..."Love is giving" 7. This person could be someone you met online? you don?t really have to meet this person in real life.. and if you are lucky.. you might be able to keep it that way forever.. 8. You could have as many Giks as you like...but always do respect your Gik as this he/she is a Person afterall... 9. If you are "Single" .. that person is not your "GIK"!! :!: Well? all of the above would be a definition of "Gik" for me. C :wink: P' C No 9 is irrelavant to other items, for me anyway. I dont wanna be anyone 's GIK! I wanna be someone he loves the most, not just cascual gf u know what i mean. I dont understand why many ppl have so many GIKs, are u scared of commitment or something? Yeah i agree that 'Gik' is just a 'Fling'. Well, i dont know i think u probably waste ur time to have so many Giks and never know if any of them could be the one uve been looking for. if u really love ur bf/gf and think that he/she could make u happy, why do u need Giks then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnno Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 I don't care Gig ,Gak or Guk whatever.... But I want to have someone to treat me as the way I'm supposed to be treated and take a good care of me. Yes I want to have a nice boyfriend. :roll: SOS so would this person then be a NAB? Nice Attentive Boyfriend or a NAG Nice Attentive Girlfriend but maybe this person wouldn't like being the nagging type 8) this is very confusing to my simple mind it was much easier when you just said "how about a shag" and if it was good, you did it again and again and .....until you got sick of this person or they got sick of you and then you both ran away ah, give me the simple life anyday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biachung Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 So basically it's "I want you for your body, not your mind" 8) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnno Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 this whole GIK/KIK/GUK/ sounds like bulls**t to me :twisted: :evil: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 I know exactly what u mean. I know that I cant control my partner's feeling. Im just being selfish thinking that I could be the only one for him thats all. I think everybody are the same; the fact that they wanna be the no 1 and only. who doesnt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bwian Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 ouch.....wow that does hurt :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
music Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 thx ms. bkkbird. OK, I'm getting a better feel for this. Kind of. Let me throw some random examples from other cultures and then maybe somebody can say, exactly, no way, maybe! I have a friend I've known for several years. She's a spark plug who I respect very deeply. She's a terrific lady, great looking, independent, articulate, an amazon (could probably put down more than a few TF male members!) and is currently a new CSIS recruit (CSIS is the Canadian equivalent of the CIA). We connect on a lot of levels. We don't see each other because she's in another city. But even if we did, we would be completely platonic. Sounds like I'm her gik? or just close friends? In Japan, SOME girls have 3 types of male friends. The standard 'kareshi' is the main boyfriend with whom she has sex and with whom she spends most of her time. Then there's the non-committal, unavailable guy, a man she really digs who offers her the rush that her boyfriend can't provide. It may be that he's super good in bed, has a penthouse suite in Ginza, is very influential, is a celebrity, a married guy, etc. The last is the 'keepsan', Mr. Keep, the steady, reliable guy who will be there for her anytime, anywhere, under any circumstance. Usually she's not attracted to him and there is no emotional involvement, at least for the girl. So the pecking order is kareshi, rush guy (can't remember the term), and keepsan. Sounds like Mr. Keep is a guk? rush guy is the gik? BTW, manuel, are you reading this? Since you noted that some female TF members only wanted giks, not friendship, has the discussion so far fit your world view? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JCBoston Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 <quote> it would make you sound so very "Selffish"... as someone is being so good to you.. you both are very found of each other... you both feel "connected" or "bonded" .. so there is no "accuse" to call this person only a "GIK"... This person deserves to be your BF/GF... or at least "Someone" you are dating/seeing!!! </quote> I have to disagree here. No one "deserves" to be anyone else's gf/bf. That isn't something you earn, it's something in the other person's heart. And if it isn't in his/her heart, it's wrong to make such a commitment. A kik is for someone who doesn't want a commitment, but would still like involvement on some level, more than friends, whether that person has a commitment or not. The idea of a kik is that he or she knows, understands, and accepts this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
music Posted October 19, 2004 Report Share Posted October 19, 2004 Nobody wants to be a "fling' forever... especially "WOMEN"... and SOME men too! Right guys? (silence......) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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