ArchAngel Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 what do you think about internet lover? do you think it is possible? why i think so,,,i hope and expect someone i chat with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anenglishman Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 what do you think about internet lover? do you think it is possible? why i think so,,,i hope and expect someone i chat with. What follows is just my own experience. Others will feel differently. Internet lover...forget it. The internet is a meeting place. U talk, u chat, u get interested...that's it. U meet and u have to start all over again. I chatted a lady a while ago for a few weeks...we got on great. And i figured...maybe. We met and she was super nice but there was no chemistry. So...the chat served its purpose...to get the meeting. the meeting served its purpose....no, this isnot going to work. And so we parted. Can u meet someone u will love from the net? Yes of course. Can u love someone on the internet? Absurd. Many will disagree and that's fine. This is just my own observation. I could u chat for a yar but i would never say i love u. i would always say...we have to meet first. What does happen is that people fall in lust via internet...that is a whole different ball game. That is sex, not love. Yes, I found sex on the net and I am sure many others. I actually found love too...but it took time and a meeting to be confirmed. But she was great!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kayle Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 I think it is stupid to fall in love with someone you met over the internet and believe that it is for real. There are too many weirdos out there I would never risk my feeling and life with that. You can possibly meet some decent people on the internet, but put the expetation about finding true love through it will mislead you to do something you will regret later. I prefer to spare the "lover" word to a person I know very well in person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Sassy Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 I always believe that what I have never seen/met is considered a "curiosity" , for Example, online love. In 1999, i chatted with someone and felt so damn great about that person... it was too good to be true.. a perfect incarnation of a dream prince. of coz, online life you would never know how he eats, dances, throws used clothes, etc. You only read what he types - in the form of affection, anger, satisfaction, sadness....etc. So I asked myself, after chatting with this guy for years - if I really "love" or it was just a tale of lust.... the story began when he visited here... there was no chemistry.. nothing... it was like the other side of the coin... really depends on your luck if what you read is what you get/will get. Without a meaningful form of physical relationship, I could never fall in love... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ttesta Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 love deprived beggars ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I_am_George Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 Yes it is possible to find love on the internet, unfortunately not for everyone, but it can and does happen. I believe the internet part is like the modern day version of a dating agency and introduces possible lovers to each other, then you have to meet and decide if its real or not. I guess some people meet the right person, and most of us dont :cry: Try telling people who have married after meeting on the internet that its absurd or not possible to find love on the internet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cosmo Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 what do you think about internet lover? do you think it is possible? why i think so,,,i hope and expect someone i chat with. No way, got to meet in person. I found that many things are said and done over the internet, but it is the actual meeting and spending time together where you find out whether you have a physical and chemical bond with the person you have been infatuated with. You may disagree but that has been my personal experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArchAngel Posted July 11, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 and if he/she stop chatting with you and tell you "i am not interested in you any more" or "i have a new online one i want to stop chatting with you"....that time will make me feel like a broken heart,,, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ttesta Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 ....that time will make me feel like a broken heart,,, shows how naive you are ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friendlyCat Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 So I asked myself, after chatting with this guy for years - if I really "love" or it was just a tale of lust.... Without a meaningful form of physical relationship, I could never fall in love... OK Dr. Sassy, what about a new journal entry: Sassy's tales of lust! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
English_George Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 Wherever people congregate 'en masse' people will meet up and fall in love. The internet is a great way for people who do not have the courage to ask someone out, to do so. So they can get to know people and slowly come out of their shell, then they become confident and can enjoy meeting people more. Unfortunately the opposite goes for people who already have that confidence and just want to say hi to people, then ironically, they think you are a weirdo. Those are the breaks my boy.......those are the breaks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
English_George Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 Answering the question: Love is a unification of the senses. You fall in love with someone by the way they talk, the way they act, the silly little annoying things that make you smile, the morning farts and the catshit morning breath. You cannot be in love with someone until you have smelt their morning breath, so it is impossible to actually fall in love with someone online. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoldMember Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 .....and it used to be common consensus amongst chicks that guys chatted with the ultimate motivation of getting their legover.Glad that outrageous notion has finally been put to (king-size) bed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArchAngel Posted July 11, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 ....that time will make me feel like a broken heart,,, shows how naive you are ... Yes, I am. I am naive.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ttesta Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 Yes, I am. I am naive.... question answered problem solved next issue please ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Sassy Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 OK Dr. Sassy, what about a new journal entry: Sassy's tales of lust! No way it would be published :oops: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khun_lung Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 Here's a compromise. Chat up a storm with your chat partner over a long time. Arrange a meeting in real and don't talk, just let the eyes inspect, and if the person is attractive enough then the next step is to get married, buy a house or condo or rent a nice place, then set up separate chat rooms and keep on chatting, meeting for sex only when you are both horny enough, then go back to your chat rooms again. In the event of an argument, invite a Mod to join your chat. :roll: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArchAngel Posted July 11, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 Here's a compromise. Chat up a storm with your chat partner over a long time. Arrange a meeting in real and don't talk, just let the eyes inspect, and if the person is attractive enough then the next step is to get married, buy a house or condo or rent a nice place, then set up separate chat rooms and keep on chatting, meeting for sex only when you are both horny enough, then go back to your chat rooms again. In the event of an argument, invite a Mod to join your chat. :roll: it's funny,,,but nice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolateLady Posted July 11, 2006 Report Share Posted July 11, 2006 what do you think about internet lover? do you think it is possible? why i think so,,,i hope and expect someone i chat with. Chat or internet is only (soft / grand )OPENING !! The less you have to learn when you have a chance face to face You need time to learn each other if it is far away, it is also difficult to know his back ground who knows... where is his licensed wife, where is his girlfriend(S) on each territories Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArchAngel Posted July 12, 2006 Author Report Share Posted July 12, 2006 and if he/she stop chatting with you and tell you "i am not interested in you any more" or "i have a new online one i want to stop chatting with you"....that time will make me feel like a broken heart,,, I don't think that called broken heart but its more like you just miss your daily sweet chat and when something missing of course you will miss it specially all the sweet words he said to you.. But if you can find someone to chat with to cover your lonelyness that you will be fine and maybe forget him again.. Cheers!! :wink: Yeah,,,i didn't say i am broken heart,,,i mean i might feel like that. I agree with you deebubble_girl,,,some sweet chatting made someone dream and miss it...and fall in love that words not him right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lightblackeyed Posted July 12, 2006 Report Share Posted July 12, 2006 It's stupid to love someone over the net without a meeting in real life.But many people are like that ?! You know sometimes love blinds you lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 12, 2006 Report Share Posted July 12, 2006 what do you think about internet lover? do you think it is possible? why i think so,,,i hope and expect someone i chat with. my opinion. it's possible. but there never been less than one on people's chat lists. :roll: what if the true love is easy to find, we wouldn't known how worth it is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lightblackeyed Posted July 12, 2006 Report Share Posted July 12, 2006 @ viggop are you talking about me ? :oops: You see Monalisa in here hehe :oops: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibel Posted July 12, 2006 Report Share Posted July 12, 2006 @ viggop are you talking about me ? :oops: You see Monalisa in here hehe :oops: So teeruk you are leaving me now ??? :cry: :cry: :cry: Sorry Wallace, you might have a chance to gain her again, she should still be at Louvre, I haven't yet found the way to get her out from there No way to get her out there, Viggop ........ she is better guarded than an Italian girl by her brother Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dear4ubkk Posted July 12, 2006 Report Share Posted July 12, 2006 There is no rule for LOVE and WAR! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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