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Then you have the one female who is more like a rubbernecker. If an argument commences, you can almost be sure that she will join in with some picture of popcorn.

:shock:

lol

Popcorn girl, what up!?!

:roll: oh... you are a SAINT! 8)

Who said that? :roll: Don't take it seriously. Have some popcorn.

who said that i take TF seriously? :lol:

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Then you have the one female who is more like a rubbernecker. If an argument commences, you can almost be sure that she will join in with some picture of popcorn.

:shock:

lol

Popcorn girl, what up!?!

:roll: oh... you are a SAINT! 8)

Who said that? :roll: Don't take it seriously. Have some popcorn.

who said that i take TF seriously? :lol:

You had me worried for a sec :D

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Didn't think that Obama the left wing socialist commie, Muslim, terrorist winning the election would rile you as much as it has.

Maybe all of those TF birds you've collected on your MSN can help sooth your woes while your here. Make sure you don't get caught juggling though!

Who you talking to, I voted for Obama? :wink:

Ya whining wanker!

Juggle juggle, but don't get caught :wink:

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Inspired by AAAum's journal yesterday...

"I believe that life is exactly as we choose to see it. All people, places and things can present both a negative and positive perspective. We, as observers, make the choice of which side we will focus upon...."

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1. Attitude is everything. It is the lens that you look through to experience your reality. Take a look at your attitude. Are you negative? Do you color everything with fear or need? Do you see what you HAVE or notice what you dot have? How will your life change if you change your attitude?

2. Treat people with kindness and respect. Everyone that you encounter should be valued, treated with courtesy. Acknowledge that they have feelings and their own perspective on life, they may be different than yours but they are also valid.

3. Avoid comparison whether you are looking down at the people who have not mastered special strengths or up at people who may be more experienced or accomplished. Constantly comparing yourself keeps the focus on the other person instead of what you can do, want to do, and are good at doing. Look inside and improve from there.

4. Take responsibility for actions and life Don't pass the buck. Don't make excuses. Take responsibility; acknowledge a mistake fix it and learn from it. Don't beat yourself up about the mistake, or hang onto past mistakes. Resolve them, own them and move forward. Today.

5. Keep you self-value boundaries Keep this in mind when someone offers a put down. When they cross your boundaries. Your worth comes from you; your being, your true self. They cannot change your intrinsic value unless you let them. Make it clear that what they are doing doesn't work for you, keep your boundaries and move forward.

6. Respect other people's time and boundaries. If you are having a bad day, feeling stuck, or you are just enjoying procrastinating. Make sure you don't use that as an excuse to waste other people's time or cross their boundaries. Time is the most valuable thing we have. If you feel like wasting your time that's your decision but don't waste other people's time.

7. Keep a -"what have I have accomplished list". Too often people make huge to-do lists and then beat themselves up when they have only accomplished a few things on the list. Keep your master list of what you want to accomplish so you don't forget things that are important to you... BUT keep a second list you update. Each day keep a specific list of all the things you did and how much time you spent on each thing. You'll know where the day went, can feel good about what you did accomplish and see where you need to focus, to get what's most important to you, done.

8. Take more notice of the people around you co-workers, friends, family, customers, clients and people you come in contact with each day. Acknowledge what they are contributing to your life and don't take them for granted. Thank them...and appreciate them... for their help, their value to the relationship, for a job well done....or just for being there

9. Enjoy the little things that happen in your day. The compliment someone gave you on the insight or shared with you. Recognize your accomplishments even if they seem small or routine, you are acknowledging a job well done. Remember to stop and "smell the roses" along the way.

10. Coming from a positive attitude and perspective you will feel more in control. Consider each interaction as your best performance, rather than just running them together as part of your day. You will see the impact you have and the value you offer to the world around you. People will be attracted to this. They will notice how well you do things and they will truly value you.

i'm now trying :)

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