I love kiwi ppl because they are kind, conservative and calm. I have met 5 kiwis before these include of Mr. Kiwi & Neo. Thing that these ppl have in common is they are polite & calm and likely stable mind, and of course, each of these ppl has their own uniqueness, like and goal.

I used to talk to the founder that I have job interview with in late last year but after 3-4 job interview he seem not so sure that he thought of me as his PA or GF. Since then I avoid meeting him by not answer his call, no reply to emails and go down to have lunch earlier than other ppl do before midday. His office is in 19 Floor and mine is 10th floor.

Yesterday at 11.20 AM while I walking to the canteen I met him by accidentally and I shocked, this is my nightmare. I greet him by say hi and asking how are you. He said he is great, he went to surfing, sailing, sightseeing in his beautiful (Auckland) city with his kids during Christmas. He was rubbing & stroking my shoulder and my back while he keeps saying “you look good, I like your dress†in such the public area, which crowded ppl passing back & fort, I thought, the Kiwi is conservative, and what is he doing now?

Am I too attractive? Or he is too excited to see me? Or what else I could think of…?

He asks if he could have lunch with me so that we can make a plan together to go to Koh Samed. When I heard that I almost ask him “since when we are bf/gf? Is it the first time that I have job interview with you?

Is he wanted to impress me by saying so? Or Am I just a piece of meat?

Oh he has kiwi trait but the way he approach / attack me is abit scary. Maybe his successful in businesses makes him be a proud man with powerful that he can get anything he wants. Or is this just his purely desire to get any girl? I have no idea…

In this morning he text me†Hi Soda, Good morning- so cool to see you again, lunch today? Shall we meet out front the building at…? Cheers…

While he text me I was cooking for my friends at work (a big lunch for 8 persons) and when I read the text, I was thinking what should I reply? I decided to reply saying “Hi Mr…I’m so sorry I can’t make it today because I have an appointment with the dentist, maybe some other timeâ€

As far as I still working here I’m sure I would meet him any time of any day so I don’t want to be rude to him or over acting and drama action, just incase I lost my job I probably go to him ask if he has any job vacancy for me.

So what is the proper word to say to him to tell him that I’m not interested in him in the horizontal way but would love to be friend in vertical way instead? He never asks me if I have bf or say anything that make me say I already have a bf.

Remember we work at the same building… I don’t know western culture…

What is the right word to say without hurting your feeling and you still feel good to me if you were him.

This reminds me when I took about ten friends to join my lunch date with man who had similar approach like this man. Hope you get your own way. It is not easy to be an attractive girl

First, he is being impolite and shows a lack of respect to touch you when you know you are not his friend. This guy is a selfish jerk, using his position to manipulate girls to get what he wants. Nothing good will come of this. Ting the motherf*cker. He's just a turd wearing a suit

Agree with Bruce that it is very inappropriate to touch someone like that. Based on my experiences in chasing girls.....which is not great by any stretch of the imagination......is that girls will bring up they've got a bf even if it has no direct relation to the question, e.g.

Carlo: Hi Jane (not Jane's real name), how are you today?

Jane: Great Carlo.

Carlo: How has work been?

Jane: Work has been boring. But it is ok as I've now got a new bf.

(Based on real life situation)

So next time you get an sms soda,

Stalker: Hi Soda, Good morning- so cool to see you again, lunch today? Shall we meet out front the building at…?

Soda: Hi Stalker, I can't make it today as I my bf said he'd call me on my lunch break and I'm so excited to be speaking to him. He is like the best guy......ever!

That should help you out!

I personally think that there is nothing to do with Kiwi or Kangaroo or Camel or whatever..

I guess he is what Bruce551 mentioned up there.

Next time you can tell him what you really think..

that you feel uncomfortable with the way he treated you or.. just avoid meeting him.

or you say like this next time if he tries to touch you again..

"Can you please **** off , Sir" with a polite voice and a smile

He just horny my dear sister Soda.. I guess just ignore his calls and texts until you meet him by excidently next time then you tell him politely that you not interested to be his gf or whatever he wants you to be tell him you wanna be just friends, I believe that way works and if he don't understand and trying to touch you or rub your back in public again just tell him to fcuk off.. This kind of person is not worth to deal with.

"As far as I still working here I’m sure I would meet him any time of any day so I don’t want to be rude to him or over acting and drama action, just incase I lost my job I probably go to him ask if he has any job vacancy for me."

Big nono, is he the only employer left in the world?? You should be more relaxed about things, or other people will take advantage of your fears sooner or later.

Soda is too attractive ofcourse

I know you can't say 'F*ck off ' to this guy coz it's not you but wondering why this jerk doesn't have a clue that you are not interesting in him . Men like to take advancetage from women in such crowed place, I hope u feel nothing LOL .Take his hands off you as soon as he do that. Politely say ' excuse me' he should stop but if he doesn't I suggest to step on his toe with your highheels 5555

If you ever think of working with this guy he will humuliate you in public again and again..wanna deal with that?

Yep I am with Bruce on this too. Come on Soda, kick theis guy to the kerb. He is no good. Lose him fast. !!!

Like Andy said, he's not the last employer in the world . . . plus, think if you worked with him and you had to see him every day. :-(

Maybe your mum is in right when she is worry because of your trip to Kiwiland:)))

Joking, Soda, but u cannot say that all ppl from one country is the same..there is good, and there is bad ppl everywhere...kick his ass, or just ignore him if u can.

...and yes, u are attractive gal, darling:)

Hmmm maybe you should go out on one date and have sex with him... I'm guessing he'll never speak to you again.

He's a Kiwi, he just eats roots and leaves.

phil nailed it.

new zealand is like Iowa with a lot of sheep.

and this a**hole is an a**hole. ignore him, run away, and at the same time you should take a self defense class like Taikwando or .... there are many. That way next time you dont like someone putting their hands on you, then you can easily put him on the floor in a submission hold. it would be great and you would look cool doing it.

Without your journal my day will be so boring when some one is away I got to find myself entertainment so, keep them coming till 24th please

A little bit of everyone above SODA...(except BOB of course)...

Bruce+SBI+Miss J are right...but if you MUST keep your job option open...

Carloz has the best diplomatic approch ...tellig him you

are loyal and with another

...if the feely stuff continues embaress him a bit:

" excuse Me ! This is Thailand and I am Thai...I am sorry this is not proper in public!" :x

AND SODA if you really consider working for a a**hole like this ...please do not!!!

BTW after the 24th TF expects daily updates and VDO from Kiwiland ....Darling