In amidst of political crisis I try to avoid conflict amongst friends at work because most are red shirt and only one who’s yellow. I hear they arguing of who is wrong or right everyday. When I told them I’m not taking any side I was accused of doing not love the country. Since then I don’t want to hear about political news much because it make me sick. So instead of news I watch serial movies or some program that is no subtitle so that I can improve my listening ability.

When I was in NZ I’m not accustomed to their accent until the second weeks I was thinking is it my ear problem? This is what I hear they pronounces. When they say ten I hearing as tin. Sex= six. The best= the bist. Then=thin. Expect= ixpict.

These days I enjoy TV a lot and yesterday I came across a program call “Millionaire Matchmaker” its interesting because the host will select men who’s rich and handsome to the show together with those sexy girls for a rich guy to pick for dating. I saw a rich guy date a hot girl and after first date the host would call both to see how far their dating go. The host asked a rich guy how he think of his date he seem to like his date very much but his date told the host that they have sex on the first date and their sex was bad. She is not interested to date him again. I couldn’t stop imagine how bad sex that he made why was she doesn’t want to date him again.

So I was thinking of what my friends told me before that man sex can telling who he is, how he caring, selfish or love you. I think my friend were 90% true. My friend she is a guru .. and one is theory expert by reading too much about sex.

No wonder these girlfriends of mine are being called “coxk teaser” hehe… I don’t know what its mean but presuming something sexy!!

One of my friends has end up in bed with a guy after date for a while. Her date asked her how many score she would give him. She gave him 80 which he was disappointed and said “then I give you 60”. My friend told me actually she was going to score him 60 but she doesn’t want to hurt him so she gave him 80. After that their relationship was turns fade and faded away….

Ms. HR also share me her story when she talked to her fiancée:

Ms. HR: if our sex is not compatible, would we still in love like this?

Mr. HR: well… I don’t know.

I think bad sex is a big issue of men because its concern his pride and etc..etc...

I don’t know why I thinking about ….. probably I watch Grey’s Anatomy too much.

What do you think or have any advice / idea?

Just for the sake of me and those virgin girls..

hmm khun Soda, "you and those virgin girls" ... there is a small misconception, there is a difference between a) girls not having much sex and girls who never had any sex at all, so I wouldn't put you in that same sentence )

yeah, it's true.

kiwis have funny accents

Don't worry, you are hearing correctly soda. sex is six in NZ.

A while ago, someone (I think it was Iain), posted a funny journal, by a supposed kiwi, where all the 'e's were changed to 'i's.

A lightweight version indeed

I think you need to watch GA more often.

http://www.thailandfriends.com/index.php?name=Journal&view=journal&jid=68702&juid=73281

: )

get use to those kiwi accents and the fact that rugby union is the only sport they follow!

It's possible the sex isn't great the first time... cos they are not sure about each other and it takes time to learn what your partner likes.

As the relationship grows, the sex can improve until both parties feel comfortable with each other and willing to be honest about what they like.

Then they get in tune with each others' rhythms and turn-ons and they have a fulfilling lovelife...

Then they get bored and go looking for 'strange'.

And start all over again.

The difference is when you both know it's going to be a one-night-stand... then you are both free to be as bad as you wanna be and as selfish as you want. It becomes a competition and you ended up ******* like mortal combat...

And you should never see them again - just take that great memory away.

If you meet them again, you won't be able to recapture that first filthy, no-holds barred sex war that left your clothes tattered, skin ripped, muscles aching, bed sweat-soaked and neighbours starting a petition.

wait til you write 'something about married' i'll come back to read

and the one above it's too much sex theories ...I DON'T get it!!!!

where in new zealand did you go soda? i was in christchurch and near rotorua. the further south you go, the more their accent is like a person from scotland. leg is leeeeeeeg. hip is hup. if you get down to invercargill, they talk with a broader scottish accent than any scottish person i have met. best of luck learning to speak kiwi

carlo, there is rugby league (warriors) and of course, good old soccer/association football (for my mate stramash), the mighty all whites. yawn.

ohh I like English_bob's idea!