GAV Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 Some time ago now a friend of mine courted and married a woman from the Philippines. She settled down here in Australia, and he gave her access to all his bank accounts. It was only a matter of weeks before she advised her husband that her sister who owns a fruit farm needed her help for the picking season. Her husband was not over the moon re this revelation so accepted it. Her sister lives some 300 km away. Some 8 weeks after she left for her sisters place he had a mild heart attack. He rang and advised her but she was less then sympathetic. He recovered and returned to work and took the odd trip down to visit his wife. She didn't make him feel loved but he put this down to her working long hours picking fruit. With the fruit picking season over she returned home to her waiting husband and started demanding money for her every little whim. Yep, the loving was on the slippery slop downwards. Every few weeks she would announce she was off to see her sister and that would be the last he would hear or see of her till she returned. Things kept sliding down the slippery slope until eventually he cut her off from the family funds. She had her own money from when she worked at her sisters farm (on a visitors visa). She didn't like this so filed for a divorce and went to the Police and applied for a Domestic Violence Order stating she was afraid of him. He defended this and it was dismissed. However this action of hers got Immigration, The Fedral and state Police involved as well. She was investergated and was advised she had so long and then would have to leave the country. For somew reason she is still here The last time he saw her was April 2011. Time moves on and he meets over the internet another girl from the Philippines so goes over and meets her. They get on well and continue their relationship and he planed to go back to see her ;ast weekend *Friday". He returned to Australia on Sunday night He didnt keep quite on the fact that he was going back to the Philippines to see a girl he had already met. She found out about it, contacted the Philippine authorities and advised them that he was a Criminal and had a VDO out against him. When his flight arrived in the Phillipines he was arrested Held and Deported from the Philippines. Now the State and Ffedral Police are looking for her. Moral of this true story: Be very careful who you love !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iBatch Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 I just got my undies soaking wet with tears! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 that's not love .... that's stupidity !!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Querida Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 that's not love .... that's stupidity !!!! Love sometimes can make you stupid! Gav, I really feel sorry for your friend. Reading this kind of story makes me feel embarrass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
admin Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 that's not love .... that's stupidity !!!! My thoughts exactly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exploring Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 This girl is nasty. Some men are too generous and don't pay attention to the warning signs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pandorea Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 r.Moral of this true story: Be very careful who you love !!! and how to find love. I feel sorry for your friend, but when you're hungry for love, it hurts you. (considering how fast he moves on, and repeats the same pattern... he's too hungry) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 Love sometimes can make you stupid! Gav, I really feel sorry for your friend. Reading this kind of story makes me feel embarrass. nah .... stupidity makes u stupid .... not love !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bodai Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 Thanks Gav, keep them coming, now I don't have to hack into my companies mainframe to get my Stick Fix. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GAV Posted May 19, 2011 Author Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 It is a HER thing, not a Pinoy thing Ces, you have nothing to be embrassed about. You find people like her in every country. CiaranM: Some how it just seems to easy to label it "Stupidity" We all cant have the Wisdom of the Irish ^_* I think Pandorea is much closer to the mark.!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 CiaranM: Some how it just seems to easy to label it "Stupidity" We all cant have the Wisdom of the Irish ^_* Gav doing it once might just be understandable, but .... he last saw her on April 2011 and already he's involved with another girl from the Philippines .... u don't need the wisdom of the Irish to see that ******* train wreck coming !!!! and as for advertising that "news" to his ex .... well what else would u call it other than stupidity !!! now i'm not saying ur friend is always stupid, but (IMO) what he's doing now is stupid and if it was a mate of mine i wouldn't be slow to tell him that !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pandorea Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 IWe all cant have the Wisdom of the Irish ^_* Recommend book of the TF book club... "The Big Little Book of Irish Wit & Wisdom" Order now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 Recommend book of the TF book club... "The Big Little Book of Irish Wit & Wisdom" Order now $50 from an Irishman near u !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koolbreez Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 There are some key facts missing, like how old is she, and how old is he? This might clear up some confusion about his stupidity., and don't say age doesn't matter...hahahahaha. The difference in age can give a better indication about her true intentions in the first place, and is a good indicater of his level of stupidity. Next, for the Philipine government to arrest, and deport him, there had to be a little more than his ex's statement. They wouldn't do that without verifying her accusations that he was a criminal, and in fact wanted....lolol. I would have to support other statements that he is stupid. Only an idiot would brag to people about what he is doing, knowing that it would get back to his ex, or as I imagine, he told her directly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GAV Posted May 19, 2011 Author Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 To the best of my knowledge he has never been in trouble with the Police. Not even a Drunk in Charge. He is in his 50's and she was about 40. I have told him a few times but the message didnt get through. So advieed him to watch out. I gather she found out thru mutual friends (wives talk) It was April 2010 not 11. AFP advised him on his return that the DVO was still on the computer, even though the case had been dismissed. It has now been removed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DANNO Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 This girl is nasty. Some men are too generous and don't pay attention to the warning signs. +1 he was stupid at the time with his wife... but if it has been a year...good that he has opened himself for new possibilities --- as long as he gets access to her funds too -this time! Love and monies are shared responsibilities Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stramash Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 Wisdom of the Irish Oxymoron of the month... kaunitz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
admin Posted May 20, 2011 Report Share Posted May 20, 2011 When I read the title of this post I thought for sure it was going to be about waking up the next morning after a one night stand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iBatch Posted May 20, 2011 Report Share Posted May 20, 2011 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exploring Posted May 20, 2011 Report Share Posted May 20, 2011 +1 he was stupid at the time with his wife... but if it has been a year...good that he has opened himself for new possibilities --- as long as he gets access to her funds too -this time! Love and monies are shared responsibilities True, love and mony are shared ;however, you probably don't listen me well that there is no 50% in my dictionary about love and money ! Some men need to be generous to the right women, gifts, flowers, surprises. I also don't mind get access to your funds since I know how to make you richer. I hope I can be helpful to you ;0 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DANNO Posted May 20, 2011 Report Share Posted May 20, 2011 True, love and mony are shared ;however, you probably don't listen me well that there is no 50% in my dictionary about love and money !Some men need to be generous to the right women, gifts, flowers, surprises. I also don't mind get access to your funds since I know how to make you richer. I hope I can be helpful to you ;0 as I said --- " Love and monies are shared responsibilities" are you expeienced now? And where did 50 % come from??? ok I accept your 55% contribution after a trial period with a fund amount --- goodghost will be providing 5000 THB soon we will measure your performance and see what that experience in America taught you!! HAH! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exploring Posted May 20, 2011 Report Share Posted May 20, 2011 as I said --- " Love and monies are shared responsibilities" are you expeienced now? And where did 50 % come from??? ok I accept your 55% contribution after a trial period with a fund amount --- goodghost will be providing 5000 THB soon we will measure your performance and see what that experience in America taught you!! HAH! The performance is an outcome from investing. I am glad to know that your are a brave person. Perhaps, we are not so sure yet, who are the evaluator! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DANNO Posted May 20, 2011 Report Share Posted May 20, 2011 The performance is an outcome from investing. I am glad to know that your are a brave person. Perhaps, we are not so sure yet, who are the evaluator! why me! of course! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnno Posted May 20, 2011 Report Share Posted May 20, 2011 gav, is this bloke a TF person? cos a guy i know had a similar problem with a filipina. i was burnt by a filipina (ex) and i advised this guy about filipinas and money, but he said no problem cos she has a business in the phillipines and is genuine. ummmmm, 2 years later and he's been burnt also. and yes, its not all philllipine women, but gee, it seems to be a common problem Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted May 21, 2011 Report Share Posted May 21, 2011 gav, is this bloke a TF person? cos a guy i know had a similar problem with a filipina. i was burnt by a filipina (ex) and i advised this guy about filipinas and money, but he said no problem cos she has a business in the phillipines and is genuine. ummmmm, 2 years later and he's been burnt also. and yes, its not all philllipine women, but gee, it seems to be a common problem personally i think it's a problem with stupid farangs rather than phillipine women !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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