AAAum Posted December 6, 2008 Report Share Posted December 6, 2008 even you love your honey to death... BUT... i think there would be sometimes you need your own space... for example, i prefer being alone or with my girl friends when i am at Hair and Nails salon... i feel considerte (kreng-jai) to keep him waiting... and also i prefer him to see when i "complete"... no towel on my head or wet hair like sea monster! i prefer trying on and matching my clothes, shoes, bags and earrings alone... naked!... without the audience etc. How about you? :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Franck1972 Posted December 6, 2008 Report Share Posted December 6, 2008 Me too, I also need time on my own. I think it's not good to forget that a couple is still two individuals that both have their own little interest. So I guess it's good to have some time for personal development and some time for mutual good times. Men need to do men things, and women need to do women things, it's as simple as that...but sometimes so hard for each other to understand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dannyboy Posted December 6, 2008 Report Share Posted December 6, 2008 i prefer trying on and matching my clothes, shoes, bags and earrings alone... naked!... without the audience etc. How about you? :wink: Me too.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AAAum Posted December 6, 2008 Author Report Share Posted December 6, 2008 i prefer trying on and matching my clothes, shoes, bags and earrings alone... naked!... without the audience etc. How about you? :wink: Me too.... errrrrrr.... matching clothes, shoes, bags and earrings ???!!! or just naked alone??? are you Dannyboy, right? :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted December 7, 2008 Report Share Posted December 7, 2008 All I want is only-MINE-room (with bed would be nice) when live together and/or after marriage. I dont plan to sleep in there but I want my own space where he is not allowed to get in esp* when I'm in there. Still not sure if I will let him use that room at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeeMarc Posted December 7, 2008 Report Share Posted December 7, 2008 All I want is only-MINE-room (with bed would be nice) when live together and/or after marriage.I dont plan to sleep in there but I want my own space where he is not allowed to get in esp* when I'm in there. Still not sure if I will let him use that room at all. i would agree wholeheartedly with that. And the guy should have his private room/office/study too. Makes sense to me and also means the shared bedroom is totally free of clutter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neo Posted December 7, 2008 Report Share Posted December 7, 2008 Sounds like perfect use of a 3 bedroom house. And then if little sproglets come along (kids), the kids get the 2 spare rooms and the happy couple only have one room again, because their happiness is now irrelevant ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted December 7, 2008 Report Share Posted December 7, 2008 Sounds like perfect use of a 3 bedroom house. And then if little sproglets come along (kids), the kids get the 2 spare rooms and the happy couple only have one room again, because their happiness is now irrelevant ;-) If my husband-to-be agreed, I will not have any kid. :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrianAZ Posted December 7, 2008 Report Share Posted December 7, 2008 Sometime I like to get in my car, turn the music up and just drive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tangkvvaa Posted December 7, 2008 Report Share Posted December 7, 2008 now i dont want to have my own space i want to be with my babe all the time Yes even in the bathroom but for long-term hm......i will want it i guess hehehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funky_house Posted December 7, 2008 Report Share Posted December 7, 2008 I love having private time. Sometimes I even switch my mobile off for a couple of days. My friends hate it. :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Sassy Posted December 7, 2008 Report Share Posted December 7, 2008 I don't want anyone to invade my privacy esp. when I'm in the toilet, suffering from constipation does it make sense? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garlic Posted December 7, 2008 Report Share Posted December 7, 2008 I don't want anyone to invade my privacy esp. when I'm in the toilet, suffering from constipation does it make sense? lol!!! sassy, there is no way i could agree with you more! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dannyboy Posted December 7, 2008 Report Share Posted December 7, 2008 i prefer trying on and matching my clothes, shoes, bags and earrings alone... naked!... without the audience etc. How about you? :wink: Me too.... errrrrrr.... matching clothes, shoes, bags and earrings ???!!! or just naked alone??? are you Dannyboy, right? :wink: It's a side to me that comes out once in a while... Shhhhhhh....Keep it secret... :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buttercup Posted December 7, 2008 Report Share Posted December 7, 2008 Yes. I enjoy and need my own space from time to time. Who doesn't? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AAAum Posted December 8, 2008 Author Report Share Posted December 8, 2008 I need time alone but for different things. I like to have time to reflect on the days events, make plans for the following day or days, to sit peacefully and quietly without talking. It is good to hear your own inner voice and to hear thoughts from both sides of your brain. I have done this my whole life and it helps me to visualize events in real time and to review several outcomes to an event without them actuall taking place. agree with you... i have been doing that as well.... mostly i do that during driving, showering, being on the bed or sitting alone (both private and public)... anytime that i can cut off myself from surrounding... i like multi-tasking... i choose to think/ plan/ fight/ hear/ summerize my inner voice when i have a peaceful time (or sitting tight)... for the other time? i'm running like a mouse with program pedal If you can be very comfortable alone and be self sufficient, then you can be together better with someone also. right. if you dont know what exactly you are or what exactly you are looking for... how can you communicate to the others effectively (in your own part)? so it would end up with running in the circle and have to begin the discussion again. or if you dont know yourself indeed... how well can you go for the others? :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AAAum Posted December 8, 2008 Author Report Share Posted December 8, 2008 agree with you... i have been doing that as well.... mostly i do that during driving, showering, being on the bed or sitting alone (both private and public)... anytime that i can cut off myself from surrounding... you shower publicly?? Please tell me WHERE!!!! 555555 ghee...plzzzz...i mean "sitting alone" :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigKus Posted December 8, 2008 Report Share Posted December 8, 2008 If you can be very comfortable alone and be self sufficient, then you can be together better with someone also. My most of the time at home alone, I like and enjoy it so much until sometimes i got worried that i would have socializing problem. If you said so, I would not worry then ( Even though im home alone but I rarely feeling lonely ) 8) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nave Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Shopping..for clothes, lingeries or grocery !! I really can't handle having a followr - followers unless I warn him - them about it. Even with friends, I wont drag them along sometimes when being with girls..one girl stops at a shop for about at least 20 mins just to 'have a look'. Now imagine 5 girls going out shopping together at the same time !!!! With my bf, if he can't give any smart comment ( "Babe, you'll look great in those black ones but if you like the red ones just get them" ) then he'd rather stay away and let me get both red and black ones !! I wanna be guilt free when going shopping !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nave Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Masturbation !! if he doesnt look like Bratt Pitt..leave me and my Mr. Pitt alone !!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AAAum Posted December 12, 2008 Author Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Masturbation !! if he doesnt look like Bratt Pitt..leave me and my Mr. Pitt alone !!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: errrrrrrrr...are you serious, sweetie? :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nave Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Masturbation !! if he doesnt look like Bratt Pitt..leave me and my Mr. Pitt alone !!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: errrrrrrrr...are you serious, sweetie? :wink: YOU know ME !! :twisted: :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AAAum Posted December 12, 2008 Author Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 Masturbation !! if he doesnt look like Bratt Pitt..leave me and my Mr. Pitt alone !!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: errrrrrrrr...are you serious, sweetie? :wink: YOU know ME !! :twisted: :twisted: come on...you like Snoopy...not Mr.Pitt :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bushi Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 When I have a partner, I definately need to have some space sometimes. I like to hangout with my friends sometimes, just myself. I don't like to do the couple things all the time, or to be stuck together like glue 24/7 Also just time for me. I like being alone, away from everyone as well. Time to reflect or sometimes just to sit by the ocean or lake and have that space. Just my time. I think all couples should have that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
English_George Posted December 12, 2008 Report Share Posted December 12, 2008 ...all you people who are complaining about spending too much time with the one you love...... ...spare a thought for those without .......especially at Christmas ..79 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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