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Yesterday it’s my first of working since I left. My friends at work keep asking when my wedding will be; and I keep telling them that I have a great time with Mr. Kiwi that is enough for me. But they insist to hear so I told them “end of this year”. Which I should told them since their first ask so that I don’t have to explain thing that they don’t want to hear again and again.
29.03.10 first day I arrived BKK I do washing, cooking for myself and answer calls from friends and cousin. My cousin was also asking me same question coz before I left she told me that “don’t come back till you get a ring” and I told Mr. Grizzly what my cousin said when he heard he said “well if you want to get a ring you got to give him a big, big BJ”. when I’m back without a ring my good excuse is “ I fail to give him a big BJ that is why I didn’t get a ring” but that didn’t make any sense to my cousin, she remind me of what Mr. Ostrich used to tell us before how to corner a man..lol…( I love how to book/tip or what ever concerning of how to)
In the evening I called my parent to tell them I’ve been abroad, actually I don’t want to but I don’t want to lie.
Dad: so you not listen to what we told you.
Me: well what you gonna do I’ve been there already.
Dad: Nothing we can do. You are a big girl and it already done.
Me: Dad, he is sweet to me and also his mom, bro & friends they are sweet to me. Their country is beautiful and full of thousands of hills & mountains. You should happy for me that someone loves me.
Dad: Yes, I happy for you but you should do the right thing.
Me: what the right thing, dad?
Dad: tell him to marry you here.
Me: Dad, what if I got divorce after married not long, do u like that?
Back in the day of departure (13.03.10) I was so excited because I never been abroad. I’ve been to Abu Dhabi once two years ago but my boss did visa thing for me I only take a paper to the airport. Actually I don’t really want to go but my boss kind of force me. But this trip I have to do everything myself. I called my dad while I’m at the airport telling him that I’m pretty busy these days.
When I’m on the plane I was worried that my parents would call me any time but I have made my decision to go already because I wanted to know we are compatible or not. I always thinking that when I said I love him, am I really love him or just because I don’t have anyone that make me lie myself that I love him so this trip will be the answer to all my question.
When the plane arrived Auckland I was looking down at the land and thought “here it is”. And while I was in queue to the passport control department. There were about 700-800 people in queue and I was standing almost the end of the line. I look through to the passport control counters, there were about 10-15 counters and I saw one authority in a counter who’s very outstanding look and I keep staring at him from the far end of line thinking that how much I wanted him check my passport. In desperately I can do was hope and staring at him while he greeting people “Hello”. Until almost the end of line I was despair since the counter before me is a Maori guy but I don’t want to line up his counter so I keep insist standing there till the supervisor gesture me to the handsome man that I have an eye on. (Thanks God)
I was hurried and excited to his counter but when I standing in front of him he was already exhausted but still manage to say hello to me. He asked me “do you come here to visit your family?” and “no, I’m not, I come here to visit friend” said I. he read my visa “Ok, the purpose to come here is to visit friend Mr. Kiwi M.” I noticed after he mentioned Mr. Kiwi name, he came up with tricky smile as if he going to burst to laugh or say “Bastard” to Mr. Kiwi. I was turning my face away because I don’t want to know what he was thinking.
Later I was pushing my bag’s trolley to the waiting crowded and searching for Mr. Kiwi but non of them were him so I keep walking and thinking I should call him so I walk to the old lady at the information counter asked where I can change the bill note to the coins so that I can make a phone call. And I was about to go to the exchange counter I saw Mr. Kiwi, handsome face hurriedly toward the crowed and over look at me who standing in front of him so I push the trolley to stop him and I jumped up to him.
I did not expect anything on this trip just spend time with Mr. Kiwi that is enough for me because I heard some Thai said when they take a trip to Europe or America. They asked Farangs for direction or some information but Farangs not even bother to give advice. (Because we are Asian sssshhh that what I heard)
I stay at Mr. Kiwi house for 2 night and then went to his mom place for a night before we left to Wellington together with his eldest brother. His mom is very sweet & nice to me and also his brother was fun he keep burbling along way till we arrived destination then we when to pubs at Wellington he said something that creep me” do you know that you came here for family approval” or something like that and asked me between love & in love which is I feel toward his youngest brother, I was so embarrassed to tell him but its ok though coz I love honest question. Anyway he did sleep at the same room with us that night due to the hotel was full. He loudly snoring at night and when he stops snore he farts twice and resumes his snoring. It was really entertaining…lol…
Both of us took a ship to south island in next morning. This is something that I never expected to see all of my life my parents never wants me to go anywhere and I don’t want they worried so I never been anywhere and I always think of my mom she never wants to see anything accept her rice farm and home. But this is my opportunity to see something fantasy, something beyond man made, something miracle as if I’m in paradise. The landscape is full of thousands of hills & mountain, lush trees and lot of sheep, cows, deer and sometimes horses grazing along down hills. Sheep is so lovely animal, cow have a cute face which I like a lot and horse is very elegant look especially while the wind blowing their mane & tails make them look as if an upper class people. This country is the magic land, which designed by a professional graphic designer, the master piece of God.
Anyway I have great time with Mr. Kiwi and his family & friends. Sometimes when I look at him I couldn’t help to giggle and when he asked me what I laughing at. I told him “nothing it’s just you are so cute” but actually I saw the youngest hood and the family trait in him 30%, his brothers & mom are influence over him. His farther was left him since he was little boy so these family member were his heroes. 30% is the circle of his friends that influence over him which I’m so happy for him that all of his friends love him. And the rest is his own self nature.
I thanks to Mr. Kiwi and I really appreciated of how he takes care and sweet to me. He took me to the amazing & marvelous places which I love it a lot and those of his friends are so nice and sweet to me. I will never be forgetting this great moment that I have. I have some pictures of this trip but I don’t know how to up load here but I have some on FB.
I love NZ, the clean, blue water, the hills & mountains, animals & green trees. I’m close to nature when I’m there. Life is beautiful no matter good or bad that I face I always appreciated in everything. I wanted to thank all people that I’ve met and like them and some who I never meet yet but already talked to… and thanks to TF to bring him into my life. I don’t know what future will bring us but today I am happy and enjoy the moment and still in the dream of paradise. and i eat like a pig now 
I think we have so much in common between me & Mr. Kiwi in the way that we are lame and our attitude toward things and so on. I couldn’t help to think that he has made a clever choice to choose me..hehe. I don’t have to explain how & why because it be a long JN.
Good day
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