English_Bob Posted December 2, 2009 Report Share Posted December 2, 2009 Hmmm interesting... My ex was a Chula graduate of Chinese heritage too... We may have been fishing in the same pond... Chinese at Chula? More like fishing in the Med No... Chinese, farang-attracted, Chula-educated, insecure, jealous, fight-hungry... Yeah, I see what you mean. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CocoaBrotha Posted December 2, 2009 Report Share Posted December 2, 2009 Disloyalty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
digitalcat Posted December 2, 2009 Report Share Posted December 2, 2009 Disloyalty. so yr ok w everything else as long as they don't stray? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeeMarc Posted December 2, 2009 Report Share Posted December 2, 2009 Hmmm interesting... My ex was a Chula graduate of Chinese heritage too... We may have been fishing in the same pond... Chinese at Chula? More like fishing in the Med No... Chinese, farang-attracted, Chula-educated, insecure, jealous, fight-hungry... Yeah, I see what you mean. time to change your fishing spots boys. There is nothing attractive in that description... and a whole pile of grief waiting to happen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Admin_2 Posted December 2, 2009 Report Share Posted December 2, 2009 Hmmm interesting... My ex was a Chula graduate of Chinese heritage too... We may have been fishing in the same pond... Chinese at Chula? More like fishing in the Med No... Chinese, farang-attracted, Chula-educated, insecure, jealous, fight-hungry... Yeah, I see what you mean. time to change your fishing spots boys. There is nothing attractive in that description... and a whole pile of grief waiting to happen Exactly...farangs are so happy to get away from it all when they arrive...Years later they are back looking for the same thing under a different brand name. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DANNO Posted December 2, 2009 Report Share Posted December 2, 2009 ["] Anyway , there must be something I like about him the most. I guess that was not just enough. EXACTLY on point :salute: and it should be enough! For me, it's very understandable that an attractive, intelligent woman (the kind I would want to be with) would be popular and have other admirers. It's the way she interacts with those other guys that is important. If she involves her current boyfriend in outings and is quite open about being 'in a relationship' there is no need for the boyfriend to feel bad. EB is right there also...you communicate your commitment to each other and your friends by words and actions...and Hopefully If I would want to be around her.....Wouldn't other people also (guys) ??? I stayed friends with some of my exes and we have nothing but platonic relationships now. But often her current bf's don't approve. My experience also, but the sometimes it's the g/fs that comes later who often wondereds how or why we continued to be friends...I always hoped that the woman I dated should at least be a good enough person that if not my g/f, she would be a very good friend My worst break-ups would be the one I went on a trip I paid for everything with, who broke up with me on the day we came back to bkk cos he got his ex pregnant and also 6-7 months later with another TF girl (If she didnt lie about it) He was such a good liar and cheater at the same times. It's funny when he's actually now complaining about how he's being cheated with his current gf ;P I think this kind out experience invites a "drive-by"...totally unacceptable it's sad that you, May. and others have had this kind of treatment Back to AAA posted story ...sometimes our hopes of how someone will grow during a relationship simply don't match up with the end result your EXPECTATIONs can really disappoint YOU Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GM Posted December 3, 2009 Report Share Posted December 3, 2009 [qu I don't mind a relationship ending, but it should be done with mutual respect and maturity.... and only involve 2 people! ah were it only so EB.. as the saying goes.." if it wasn't ending badly, it probably wouldn't be ending"..or something like that. I find it very rare when a breakup is done amicably. It has happened to me only once...but then again I do have a unique ability to make girls run from me while cursing me in multiple languages! Although with time I've eventually become friends with them. The irony is that most of them end up getting mad at me for not showing ENOUGH emotion! Now that's irony! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
English_Bob Posted December 3, 2009 Report Share Posted December 3, 2009 ah were it only so EB.. as the saying goes.." if it wasn't ending badly, it probably wouldn't be ending"..or something like that. I find it very rare when a breakup is done amicably. It has happened to me only once...but then again I do have a unique ability to make girls run from me while cursing me in multiple languages! Although with time I've eventually become friends with them. The irony is that most of them end up getting mad at me for not showing ENOUGH emotion! Now that's irony! I have the opposite experience. My break-ups are usually quite civilised. No screaming, shouting or cursing. Maybe a little crying, but no plate-smashing and knife-wielding. I'm either a great 'break-up' artist... or none of my exes was really bothered when we broke-up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DANNO Posted December 3, 2009 Report Share Posted December 3, 2009 no reason if your honest and direct you cannot have agood chance at friends think I will inject a little Jimmy Buffet here: (A Pirate Looks at Forty) I go for younger women, live with several a whiel Though I ran them away, they'd come back one day Still could manage a smile Just takes a while, just takes a while... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soda Posted December 3, 2009 Report Share Posted December 3, 2009 ah were it only so EB.. as the saying goes.." if it wasn't ending badly, it probably wouldn't be ending"..or something like that. I find it very rare when a breakup is done amicably. It has happened to me only once...but then again I do have a unique ability to make girls run from me while cursing me in multiple languages! Although with time I've eventually become friends with them. The irony is that most of them end up getting mad at me for not showing ENOUGH emotion! Now that's irony! I have the opposite experience. My break-ups are usually quite civilised. No screaming, shouting or cursing. Maybe a little crying, but no plate-smashing and knife-wielding. I'm either a great 'break-up' artist... or none of my exes was really bothered when we broke-up. when I sensed any sign that could lead to an end or can't see him in my future the first thing i did is telling him that " no matter what happen we'll still good friends, ok? :oops: before it gone worsen :roll: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AAAum Posted December 3, 2009 Author Report Share Posted December 3, 2009 Back to AAA posted story ...sometimes our hopes of how someone will grow during a relationship simply don't match up with the end resultyour EXPECTATIONs can really disappoint YOU thinking about this... my idea is just i dont (dare to) expect anyone would grow up because of relationtion (actually i have leant a lot from my partner during relationship)... i believe that people would grow up by experiences... if someone teaches me or gives me shortcut... that would be my benefit... i would call that a "ready meal" ... i can eat it promptly but i still dont know how to cook... that means i cant cook myself when i'm hungry... so it seems what i do to my ex... it doesnt work if he couldnt emerge it himself... so much agree for "your EXPECTATIONs can really disappoint YOU"... but you know what... expectation drives me believe in him... besides him and put my effort to him... well, now i know the right approach is the must Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biachung Posted December 3, 2009 Report Share Posted December 3, 2009 WHAT... destroy your relationship? It was her BD, She wanted something with diamonds , so I got her a deck of cards. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stramash Posted December 3, 2009 Report Share Posted December 3, 2009 being a deceitful lying slag... (her not me) :wink: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DANNO Posted December 7, 2009 Report Share Posted December 7, 2009 Back to AAA posted story ...sometimes our hopes of how someone will grow during a relationship simply don't match up with the end resultyour EXPECTATIONs can really disappoint YOU thinking about this... my idea is just i dont (dare to) expect anyone would grow up because of relationtion (actually i have leant a lot from my partner during relationship)... i believe that people would grow up by experiences... if someone teaches me or gives me shortcut... that would be my benefit... i would call that a "ready meal" ... i can eat it promptly but i still dont know how to cook... that means i cant cook myself when i'm hungry... so it seems what i do to my ex... it doesnt work if he couldnt emerge it himself... so much agree for "your EXPECTATIONs can really disappoint YOU"... but you know what... expectation drives me believe in him... besides him and put my effort to him... well, now i know the right approach is the must AAA well after thinking what did you decide? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimmyTabasco Posted December 7, 2009 Report Share Posted December 7, 2009 Serious lack of sex life/attraction..and infidelity Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoBeIt Posted December 11, 2009 Report Share Posted December 11, 2009 Mother-in-law Couldn't agree more.. (I though it was only in the Thai soap opera) scary... really ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jfreese Posted December 11, 2009 Report Share Posted December 11, 2009 Mother-in-law YES! good point YEESSSSSSS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AAAum Posted February 18, 2010 Author Report Share Posted February 18, 2010 Back to AAA posted story ...sometimes our hopes of how someone will grow during a relationship simply don't match up with the end resultyour EXPECTATIONs can really disappoint YOU thinking about this... my idea is just i dont (dare to) expect anyone would grow up because of relationtion (actually i have leant a lot from my partner during relationship)... i believe that people would grow up by experiences... if someone teaches me or gives me shortcut... that would be my benefit... i would call that a "ready meal" ... i can eat it promptly but i still dont know how to cook... that means i cant cook myself when i'm hungry... so it seems what i do to my ex... it doesnt work if he couldnt emerge it himself... so much agree for "your EXPECTATIONs can really disappoint YOU"... but you know what... expectation drives me believe in him... besides him and put my effort to him... well, now i know the right approach is the must AAA well after thinking what did you decide? havent answer it for long...sorry what did i decide? the thing i think it's the best... not always the best for the others... i back off and let him live his life once we cant see any future... so... breaking up is the answer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoBeIt Posted February 18, 2010 Report Share Posted February 18, 2010 WHAT... destroy your relationship? Nagging... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leaf Posted February 18, 2010 Report Share Posted February 18, 2010 1. Loosing interest 2. Trust Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drlovelife8 Posted February 18, 2010 Report Share Posted February 18, 2010 If I am being REALLY frank, it has been my infidelity which has destroyed more than 50% of my relationships. Osama Bin Laden/MOSAD (depending on what you believe) destroyed one of them. After 9/11, my Pakistani GF was strongly encouraged (trying to sugar coat that one) to become a single woman again by her father. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bware Posted February 18, 2010 Report Share Posted February 18, 2010 If I am being REALLY frank, it has been my infidelity which has destroyed more than 50% of my relationships. I hope your ambidexterous Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teddy Posted February 18, 2010 Report Share Posted February 18, 2010 It all started because she was a jealous workaholic. I was an alcoholic which lead me to being irresponsible, abusive, aggressive and bossy. When I sobered up I became a coward and she became unfaithful, I became too nice wich lead me back to the beers again. I have no idea which one option to tick :wink: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hbkbkk Posted February 18, 2010 Report Share Posted February 18, 2010 sex change Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoBeIt Posted February 18, 2010 Report Share Posted February 18, 2010 sex change That would definitely turn me on :oops: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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